Our 27th year with #MyAmelia

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It all started on our honeymoon. My husband and I spent some time on Amelia Island, and from the moment we stepped onto its sandy shores and wandered beneath the moss-draped oaks, we knew this place was something special. That first visit was quiet, unhurried, and full of charm. We looked at each other and said, “We’ve got to come back here.” And so, we did. Again and again, until it became not just a vacation spot but a chapter in our family’s story.

Every summer for the past 27 years, we’ve packed up the car and pointed it toward the southern end of Amelia Island, Florida. Some families do cruises, and some pick a new destination yearly, but not ours. We’ve always returned to this same sandy stretch of paradise. And each time, it feels both completely familiar and freshly magical.

Before we dive into beach chairs and ice cream cones, let’s clear up a little local geography. Amelia Island is the northernmost barrier island on Florida’s Atlantic coast, stretching about 13 miles long and just 4 miles across at its widest point. While the island is known for its tranquil beaches, lush nature trails, and Southern charm, the historic city of Fernandina Beach sits on its northern tip. Though many use the names interchangeably, Fernandina Beach is technically a city on the island, complete with a charming downtown, rich history, and pirate lore. Amelia Island refers to the whole island, including resort areas where we stay on the southern end.

We stay at the Omni Amelia Island, always aiming for our beloved Turtle Dunes condo complex. Nestled at the end of the resort means fewer people, more space, and that perfect slice of beach that feels like it’s ours alone. It’s peaceful and quiet, yet full of life in its natural way. We used Amelia Elite Properties this year, and Ghazal went above and beyond, leaving snacks and wine for us! If you’d like to explore her properties, click the link and mention that I sent you.

And yes, we’ve said it every year: Why didn’t we buy a condo here 20 years ago? But even without a deed or title, we come back year after year like clockwork. As the planner in the family, I find real comfort in knowing exactly where we’re going and how the week will unfold. There’s no itinerary to build, and no figuring it all out on the fly. That sense of familiarity is my vacation gift to myself.

My husband sets up our camp each morning: four matching umbrellas and chairs lined up like a beachy battalion ready for duty. It’s one of those small things that’s become a big deal over the years. There’s comfort in knowing where you’ll sit, how the breeze will hit, and the exact spot where your toes will first find the tide.

Another sacred tradition? David’s homemade chicken salad. He makes a big batch the first night we arrive, and it becomes our go-to for easy, delicious sandwiches during beach breaks. No store-bought version of chicken salad will do for my boys, and they would revolt if it weren’t part of the week. 

Of course, I never leave for our trip without stopping to pick a gallon of fresh Georgia blueberries. They accompany me to the island every year, packed carefully in the cooler. Throughout the week, I snack on them by the handful on the beach, on the balcony, and sometimes right from the fridge at any time of day. They’re sweet, refreshing, and a little taste of home to carry through the sunny days.

But as much as I love the beach, the trails steal my heart. The area around the resort is laced with expansive paths winding through lush, almost jungle-like landscaping. The live oaks are massive and magical, stretching in every direction, dripping in Spanish moss, and whispering of time.

Morning walks here are sacred, just me, the hush of nature, and that unmistakable breeze rustling through trees and beach grass.

Our days are built on simple pleasures: sunshine, waves, and the occasional football toss between dad and sons. Some of my most treasured memories are when the boys were young, digging in the sand, splashing in tidal waves, and throwing footballs until they wore themselves out. There was the year when they were both relatively young, they brought friends and played so hard in wet, sandy swimsuits that they chafed their poor little legs red. The funniest part? Watching them try to walk around the condo afterward without rubbing it any further. I shouldn’t have found it funny, but it absolutely was.

The long beach walks and talks with my boys didn’t begin until they were nearing the end of high school. But those conversations became my favorite part of the trip when they did. There’s something about the sound of the waves, the quiet stretch of sand, and walking side by side that brings out the best kind of conversation. Young adult conversations can be lovely, thoughtful, open, and surprisingly wise. It often would solidify that we did a fairly good job at this parenting thing. 

Evenings mean showering off the salt, dressing in light linens, and heading into town. Dinner is often at Cafe Karibo or Timoti’s, both longtime favorites. Sometimes, we mix it with The Crab Trap, Salty Pelican, or The Surf. This year, we added Bob’s Steakhouse to the list. It’s yummy, and yes, it’s $$$, but it’s worth every penny. We’ll be back.

But the real ritual begins afterward: strolling downtown, peeking in the shops, and always, always getting a kid’s scoop of ice cream on a cake cone from Fernandina’s Fantastic Fudge. It’s a rite of passage that tastes like childhood and contentment. We often pick up a new T-shirt or hat, a wearable souvenir of another perfect summer.

We always stop by The Christmas Shop on the River to grab an ornament or something coastal and cute. If we have time (and make time), we drive out to Fort Clinch State Park, a hidden gem if there is ever one. The historic fort, the canopy road, the trails, and the views are like walking through a postcard.

The trip has evolved as the boys have grown. Now, they cook their own food, drive to dinner, and stay up long after we’ve called it a night. But the spirit of the trip, the rhythm, the roots, the return, it’s all still there.

There’s something about Amelia Island that wraps itself around your heart. The oak trees, the moss, the salt air, the sound of waves brushing the shore, and the laughter that comes with time well spent. It’s not just a vacation. It’s a chapter we add to each year. And what a beautiful book it’s becoming.

Here’s to looking forward to summer number 28!